For most women, becoming a victim of a violent crime is their first introduction to the legal system. It can be complicated, confusing, frustrating, intimidating and, often, insulting. The stress of dealing with the bewildering proceedings and the frequently encountered gender bias of the justice system adds to a victim’s trauma. And, while the court system is able to respond to some of the needs of women who have been battered, it is equally important that both survivors and those who work with them understand its limitations in ending violence against women.

Because a woman’s danger generally increases as she tries to escape her abuser, it is vitally important that she have a well-thought-out safety plan. She is the expert on her situation and has been using all of her skills to survive so far. The likelihood is great that her abuser will retaliate or that the violence will escalate as she tries to engage the justice system.

Be extremely cautious about urging a woman who has been battered to obtain an Order of Protection. It must be made clear to her that it is not an ironclad shield against the abuser’s renewed assaults. Even law enforcement agencies that have strong resolve to respond to victims’ needs cannot provide officers to be with her 24 hours a day. Furthermore, a woman’s ability to rely on assistance from police and sheriff’s deputies often depends upon the particular officer who answers a call. Even at best, the violence might happen so suddenly that she can call for help only after an assault has occurred.